Dating Tips For Men: How Do I Know if She Wants Me to Kiss Her at the End of Our Date?

​First off, there is a very simple answer to this question. You determine the answer to this question by attempting to kiss the woman at the end of the date and see if she kisses you back or backs away! It should really be that simple, shouldn’t it? After all, if she really has no interest in you, what do you have to lose by trying to sneak an innocent kiss? You weren’t getting a second date, regardless, so pucker up and dive in, but do it respectfully, of course!

On the flip side, if she DOES have a strong interest in seeing you again, then she more than likely WANTS you to kiss her! So, unless you have tremendously bad breath and are the worst and sloppiest kisser on this planet, then an attempted kiss will not ruin your chances of seeing her again. Chances are, the woman already made up her mind about wanting to see you again before you even left the restaurant.

Despite the above mentioned data, many men are still hesitant to just “go for it” at the end of the date when it comes to a first kiss. Many of us want some kind of assurance that we are not about to make a fool of ourselves or damage our ego or self-confidence. Well, if that’s the case, then here is a nearly fail-proof strategy:

When the date is over, DO NOT say goodbye to her near the entrance of the restaurant/bar. You must make an effort to walk her to her car. If you say goodbye to her in front of the building’s entrance while other patrons walk by you, then the comfort level and motivation to kiss each other with an audience will likely not be high. As long as she allows it, you need to walk her to her car.

The moment of truth comes when you both arrive at her car. Want to know if she wants you to kiss her? Ok, then! What does she do when she reaches her vehicle? Does she give you a quick “Had a good time tonight” as she gradually opens the driver’s side door? Or does she stand by her car while continuing a conversation with you, with no visible attempts to immediately open her car door?

If she has no interest in a second date, then she will waste no time in entering the vehicle and driving off. If she stands by the car for several minutes and continues to talk to you, then don’t be a fool! She is basically telling you that she wants a kiss before she leaves! I believe in the “7-minute rule” for parking lots. If she stands there with you for several minutes without showing any interest in getting inside her car, then you MUST go for a kiss!! If you don’t, she may think you are a bit of coward, which could actually cause her to change her mind about seeing you again. She may even think you are not interested in her.

It is possible that she is thinking you are being a respectful gentleman by not attempting to kiss her right away, in which case she will still likely see you again. But why should you confuse yourself? Why should you confuse her? Just kiss the girl, man!